The Difference Between Rough Sex and Sexual Violence

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We’ve got a more serious topic today: we’re going to talk about consent, sexual violence, and a little bit of BDSM. We're exploring the recent normalisation of rough sex - and the difference between CONSENSUAL rough sex and sexual violence ✨ (CW: sexual assault, sexual violence and murder: take care of yourselves when watching)

Rough: How Violence Has Found Its Way Into the Bedroom and What We Can Do About It by Rachel Thompson*: https://uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781529110388
BISH: https://www.bishuk.com/
SIMMER: http://www.bextalkssex.com/simmer#

RESOURCES FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED SEXUAL VIOLENCE
- Galop: domestic abuse and sexual violence support service for LGBT+ people.
Helpline: 0800 999 5428 (Monday-Friday, 10am-5pm / Wednesday & Thursday, 10am-8pm). Website: http://www.galop.org.uk
- The National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by Refuge Free and confidential helpline.
Phone: 0808 2000 247 (24 hours a day)
- Survivors UK – Male Rape and Sexual Abuse Support: A range of support options to help those who identify as men recover from experiences of sexual abuse or rape.
National Helpline: 0845 122 1201
Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org.
Webchat available Monday-Sunday 12:00 - 20:00

BDSM RESOURCES
Kink Academy: https://www.kinkacademy.com/
The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy*: https://uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781890159368
The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy*: https://uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781890159351
Loving BDSM: https://www.youtube.com/lovingbdsm
BDSM online workshops by Bex Caputo - https://www.bextalkssex.com/workshops/

CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Intro
01:30 – What is BDSM?
02:37 – Normalisation of rough sex
04:41 – Needing to be “up for it”
05:43 – It’s not consent if you don’t feel like you can say no
08:43 – Communication, negotiation, and aftercare
10:34 – Wrap-up

SIMILAR VIDEOS
Why 'Enthusiastic Consent' Doesn't Work For Everyone | Models of Sexual Consent: https://youtu.be/UreZfOT54Bw
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